We are just other sellers, we can give advice, but we don't have access to anything
If you want etsy to help, you need to log a ticket - community and help - contact us - keep going until you get to "I still need help"
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If you are using an app, try the browser,
you need a shipping zip code, and delivery days, in the shipping profile
Sounds like your using Quick Edit. You have to exit quick edit, to click on the title to edit the listing itself.