There shouldn't really be a reason to be upset, nervous, stomach in knots about these tags. All they are asking for is who are you, where are you from, where was this made, where are the materials from, and when did you make it. Not FBI questions.
Try to think of these tags as advertising for the future.
Put your store name where you can be reached if someone would like to buy something more from you:
FayeMaloneDesigns.com Or Fayemalonedesigns/etsy.com
Where are you located:
Kinsman. Ohio. USA
Where was this made and where are the materials from:
Made in the USA of Imported Materials
(lets face it, the USA doesn't make anything, almost
all of our supplies come from Mao's Communist China)
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I use a code. 09ASONDJFMAMJJ10
(Really complex. 09 last year Aug, Sept, and so on until 10 this year. Covers 12 months. I make a pin dot mark using a fabric pen used on quilts sold at every fabric store and online to make a small dot underneath the year and month of my date. Take me to jail for not having testing results from a CPSIA approved for 2 miniscule dots of washable ink on a label, it will be laughed out of court. Lets be real this is not going to happen, When we have Toyota killing people with gas pedals that are getting stuck causing accidents, do you really think that any AG in the country is going to give a flying leap that I have used a fabric pen that I didn't send off to be tested to make 2 tiny dots?)
Maybe our government has no common sense when they write these laws, but use your own common sense. Follow the law using materials that you know are exempt, skip those items that you know are not approved (bling crystals, cheap metal cast jewelry stuff etc,) get manufacturers testing results for other things, attach your labels ,NO BIG THING, put on the FTC labels and get on with your creating. Don't be so concerned with someone elses labels look like, FTC labels are easily found even here on ETSY or other places on line. Search clothing care labels, CPSIA labels, size labels.
Please feel free to convo me if you need help on specific labeling for your items or other questions that you may have. I can direct you to easy places that stock standard labels that you can use, especially for your FTC labels. Look at the clothing that you have purchased. You will probably find 2-4 labels on each garment, don't stress on this, think of it as what any other business does.