On top of selling on Etsy I also sell in Soho as a street vendor. I started off as a street vendor and have done for over 13 years.
Recently I have had a lot of people (more than normal) contacting me about wanting to see the items in person before they buy, they want to make sure they like it or want to feel it before making a purchase.
At first I was selling the same items so it was not a problem, but after a while I got sick of looking at the same stuff on etsy and in my outdoor shop. So I treat the outdoors as a chance to experiment with leathers and sizes and get feedback from customers. Its fun to make stuff without measuring height depth length
just make what you feel like making just because.
So now when people want to buy something and I tell them that its not on the street they get upset or frustrated or ask me to call or email them when I make it so that they can come and see it. (no way jose, too much work)
Its so frustrating because if I tell them the item that they are looking for is not there, they shut down and stop talking to me. And I explain that whats on etsy is on etsy only and what outdoors is outdoors only and its the best way I can explain it.
I usually invite them to come and look at my quality or my leather but by telling them the item they are looking for is not there (although the truth) seems to shut down the conversation.
So should I say sure come by anytime, and not point that out. Cause I think its sound univinting or rude because so far the last six people who contacted me regarding a potential visit did not come and did not speak to me again.
Am I reading too much into this? What would you do.
Now I understand where they are coming from, which is why it took me so many years to join etsy because I did not believe or feel that someone would buy such an expenisve bag sight unseen. But I work from home and I do not have the space to make bags and have them just sitting around for when someone wants to see them, and most of all people customize their bags so much in color and hardware and thread I acutally loose out making stuff ahead because its hardly ever what people want!
Help!