So, the deadline for purchases outside of the UK for delivery in time for Christmas was the 12th, and I got a lot of last-minute orders that day. I was actually able to keep on top of it and got everything posted out that day, but I'm still getting orders to the US with messages saying "needed in time for Christmas". The thing is, the faster shipping option that's available isn't really faster at all - not in my experience, at least. People can pay 3 times as much but it won't reach them any sooner. Otherwise, there's another option which costs about 3 times as much as the products themselves which I don't see people paying.
Obviously I don't want to lose the sales by telling them it won't arrive in time, but I have to let them know that it's likely to arrive after Christmas. So far I've been lucky and no one has wanted to cancel the orders, but I still feel as though I'm expected to use some kind of magic to make it get there in time and it's a bit stressful.
I'm assuming that others are having this problem, or are likely to have it soon. How do you deal with it? I send them a polite message thanking them almost profusely for their business, but I also let them know that it's not likely to arrive on time. It might manage it, but odds are it'll be a little late. So far no one's cancelled, but it's getting so close to Christmas now that I don't feel I have the time to ask them if they want 'faster' shipping that I swear is a 1 in 6 chance of actually being faster than standard, because a lot of the time customers buy and then wander off and don't respond to messages. Am I right to just ship it standard as quickly as I can? The way I see it, even if an item is late for Christmas, it would still surely be as appreciated late as it would have been on the day. A good gift is a good gift, right? Or is there something else I should be doing or offering them that I've not thought of yet?