hmm, ive never thought about it. I always give positive feedback as quickly as I can. im also almost too nice, as I will admit to blatantly lying once. I got something that was suspiciously cheap, but took a chance, and it smelled like cigarettes so bad! it still smells a little, and I got it before Christmas. (its also a childrens item, so I thought it almost mean not to admit it) it was a nasty surprise, but...I took a chance, and she lost money by charging me too little for shipping. all that said, I couldn't find it in my heart to leave negative feedback. I honestly don't know why. haha. maybe that had something to do with it? I also try not to just say thank you, I mention all the good points of that transaction (shipping, price, customer service, the item itself, packaging, etc) all of those aspects go into each one of my shop listings, so I try to recognize that, even just in that 80 characters or whatever it is, In the comment part. I feel like that little bit can go a long way. I also love reading someones heartfelt comment left for me. those have made my week sometimes.
on top of all that though, I think my volume of purchases ive made here, all with very positive feedback left for them, may also have attributed to it. I also never hesitate to ask sellers questions, or just reach out to them to say, I love your things, for so and so reasons. most times I cant afford them, but (especially handmade dolls of any kind) I love to let them know, hey your item is unique and special, and you have great talent! im believing more everyday, that good deeds done here directly brings good things right back to you. there is such a beautiful community here, if you look for it. and ive made such good friends in such a short time
its funny, I have a eerily good memory at times, that quote (though im sure not originally) is from neil Patrick harris.haha. :)
my other top loved quotes (that I will have in my workspace,if and when I can find one : / )
-be yourself, everyone else is already taken
-be happy with what you have, and you will always have plenty to be happy about
-do what you love, love what you do