Not all those people who hit the FP have a purchased charm on a chain. A good friend of mine hits the FP with regularity, and she's a PMC artist. She makes those herself. And as far as wire wrapping a briolette, that takes some time to properly learn to do it.
I do understand your frustration. Jewelry is extremely competitive, and unless you're in the inner circle, it's nearly impossible to get in on the big Treasury Teams. I'm just now starting to take off in heartsabustin with the selling, and I've been here nearly four years.
I know you've heard it, but you have to be patient. You have to. It's not easy - believe me, I've wept many a tear over reshooting items, hating myself for ever getting into this mad thing called Etsy in the first place (THANKS A LOT, MOM!!) (HAHAHAH), and wondering if I really suck that bad. (I don't, but you get my point).
This Etsy thing ain't easy.