This probably belongs in BT or some other place, but I thought this was a good place to start.
Apart from having lived in 3 countries, (thereby racking up alot of international packages to friends and family over the years), and being a visual artist (I have to ship my work around the world, and back again) I also have been selling online since the early days of the Bay of the E.
In other words, I know my way around a customs form, whether Canadian, US or UK. I understand how to fill them out legally and fairly for both the customer and the shipper, so we all end up happy, and without potential legal issues.
Do your customers ever tell you what to write on the customs form? Recently I had a potential customer tell me what I should write. Not ask. Tell.
My question is this:
Do you ignore them and fill it out legally and fairly, knowing that everything will be ok.
or
Do you reply to them that you must comply with international law and fill out the customs form the way it should be filled out.
Just curious if this comes up alot on Etsy. It's not like you write to Amazon or Asos and say Hey, dude, can you write this on my customs form?