Choices choices, not always do we pick the right ones. If you're ideal is to perform, than go for that, keeping your crafting lower key (I'm assuming that you'll need to dedicate, triple extra hours to honing the performing skills).
I say pro perform, because Etsy can float on it's own if you need to "be away" from it most nights.
If you can delegate your shop functions to others (who will support you on this) than try that route for awhile.
Not nearly as comparable, I chose not to pursue my other craft (digital stuff), for a chance to run as a top dog in the company I was leaving. Wish I had went with the craft (in hind site), but I never would have had that position either, had I not took it. For me, the company sold itself, & I'm kicking myself for not having plucked that "craft" market sooner.
You at least have your craft here floating, so you can "dabble" in both, feeling out the better of the two, that is right for you, at the time.
Always go for what pays the bills if you can't do what you like. Work to live, not live to work (unless you're a worker bee).