I am very close to tears, but before I have a breakdown I thought I'd post here and see if anyone has any ideas of what I'm doing wrong. I am making a bezel cup using 3/16 28ga fine silver bezel wire, 24 ga sterling sheet for the back, and hard silver solder (all ordered from Rio Grande) and the Large Butane Torch (also from Rio). For some reason, when I am trying to solder my bezel wire onto the sheet backing, the solder literally will do nothing. I apply flux - I tried applying more, and I tried applying less. I tried using smaller pieces of solder and larger pieces. I got so frustrated that I literally left the torch directly in the middle of the bezel cup and the solder *still* didn't melt, much less flow.
Does anyone have suggestions for what I'm doing wrong? I have tried 5 times now, and nothing happens. The solder eventually turns black like I've burned it, but still doesn't melt. I tried moving the torch over to an extra piece of solder to see if something's wrong with it, and when I hold it directly over a piece that's away from the bezel, it goes into its little ball like its supposed to.
What the heck am I doing wrong??