Oh and boys had conferences yesterday, and both are doing well.
5yo is having more trouble, s she is facing the issue I faced here and knew I couldn't teach him... When it comes to learning he's terrified of being wrong, so unless he is certain he just shut down and wont even try... But hey he got 13 when they did the number test and got up to 49! 13 is a number he almost always skips, in fact he did at his docs apt Wed... So I know the problem isn't gone, but glad to see they had gotten past it for the test...
It was kinda funny as the teacher said it was lack of self confidence for why he shuts down, but that's not really it, it's that fear of being wrong... I would never go around saying he isn't a risk taker, like she was, just not in the classroom... On the bright side, he attaches to how they teach reading now so much better than his brother... I tried and tried to get 8yo to learn what sounds letters made and to sound stuff out, but he wouldn't, not that he was ever behind in reading, he just would not do it their way. Overall 5yo did much better than I thought he would... School is never going to be his thing, hes physical, oh and we got addressed his issue with another student, so that the music teacher can separate them and hopefully they'll do better... They have lockers next to each other which probably isn't helping either, but I think if he only has to deal with the student that bothers him at the locker it's better than the classroom. I've told him sometimes we just have to put up with people you don't get aalong with.
8yo is doing great, just like we thought he would. Unlike 5yo school is def 8yo's thing... The more learning the better... Although he wasn't in the special higher level stuff this year, his teacher is going to start and send a group of her kids off to that upper level teacher for reading, which he was never in her reading group b4 so that is exciting, He wants to go to the upper level stuff for math, but his teacher is introducing a lot of new stuff he just hasn't been introduced to b4 so she wont do that till that section is over. Yes my 8yo loves math!