Great thread Preston!
Usually once a month I go through my orders, checking the tracking info to make sure everything arrived. Anyone who has not left feedback, I send them a message:
-thanking them for the purchase
-noting that the package arrived on such date according to tracking info
-ask if everything arrived as expected
-contact me if they have any questions or concerns
-if they don't mind doing so, asking them to please leave feedback
-brief explanation on how feedback helps both buyers and sellers
-as an added bonus, I supply a discount code for future orders.
Once I have the bulk of the message typed up, I copy and paste it to each order...customizing it a little for each person.
****I NEVER request that my buyers leave 5 stars! I personally feel like this is tacky, and coached. Its not true feedback. If I could have done something better...I want to know! Only once out of 90+ ratings, did someone leave less than 5 stars. I read the rating she left, had to calm down before responding, messaged her about the experience offering a refund for the purchase she was so unhappy with, received a nasty response, then I responded to the feedback in a professional manner. At that point...that's all you can do. (Don't ever leave a nasty response to negative feedback...it doesn't help you at all)
Remember, that you can't pleas everyone. And even if someone leaves negative feedback...all of your positive feedback should outweigh it.