Hey Nicole,
Sorry your day has been frustrating...hopefully this helps!
Gosh your shop is filling up! And it's not unorganized that I noticed. I like the way you've grouped things a bit by color (is that on purpose?). It makes browsing your shop pleasant and seems an especially nice way to do accessories.
I will just take a random listings to critique. I totally understand if any of this has "fallen through the cracks", you have a lot to maintain in your shop!
http://www.etsy.com/listing/151568678/rainbow-fluorite-pendant-freshwater?ref=shop_home_activeI find that the third photo for this item is the most intriguing. Would you ever try using that as your first? By the title, people will know it is a necklace, so the first photo you choose should make them want to click, and the 3rd one does! I've seen in my shop that having a super close up as your first really seems to draw in that first click. Try using the "crop photo" feature when you are in the preview stage of your listing edit, that way you are just "cropping" for the listing and the overall image stays the same.
That said, even in this photo, the wrinkled background seems to bother me a bit. Maybe a quick iron before you shoot photos or a foam core background would look cleaner than fabric. Maybe a shot of the necklace draped across/coming out of a cute antique looking dish. Is there any chance you could recruit a helpful friend (with a nice looking neck) to model some of your necklaces?
Your tags look good (according to all the advice I've read), are they working for you with this piece? The only edits I'd make is "jewelry" and "necklace" those are essentially wasted tags as they are both browsing sections and if someone were to type them in the search bar they would come up with 5,000,000 and 2,000,000 items respectively. So, unlikely that they are guiding anyone to your items.
Maybe consider "short pearl necklace" "silver pearl necklace" "dark pearl necklace" as replacements?
Also, is it important where your pearls come from? I felt myself wondering when reading the description. It seems a natural part of the description that is missing.
Sorry if this was too "critiquey". Your shop really is looking quite nice and so full! I'm very impressed...really makes me feel I need to get to work!