A Long Road

Hi Everyone,
I just wanted to share a blog post with you all about my latest crisis in confidence.

I know much of the focus in Etsy blogs, forums and posts are about "turning your hobby into a business", but some of us have had to do it the other way around.

My business story is similar to many I'm sure. I started a business after being made redundant and was hoping for Etsy to be an important part of my income.

I have just put a blog post up on my website telling the story of my latest crisis of confidence. My blog is more of a vent for the thoughts flying around in my head, but someone suggested that I share it.

Sorry to the group admin if it breaches any rules, but that was not my intention. The link is below. Keep up the good work everybody.

Best wishes,
Damian

http://www.damianmiles.co.uk/#!The-Road-is-Long/j2ald/575556770cf23167914ac034
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Hi Damian,
wow that was quite a powerful read! 'Congratulations!' on the job and well done for going for it (a long way to go for a job that's working from home!) - it sounds ideal for you.

I think you have summed up how most people working for themselves feel, it is a really tough road and it sometimes feels that there are more down than ups but It sounds like you have an amazing support network in your family and friends.

Taking another job has lots of benefits, I took a very part time job when things were tough a couple of years ago (only 1 day a week), and I still do it a) because it's extra money through the quiet and unreliable times and b) because it keeps me sane seeing other people when the rest of the week I'm on my own.

Good luck to you and thanks for sharing the blog, and for making me see the things around me that I need to appreciate just a little bit more!

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I agree with Lorraine and well done mate.

I admire you to be honest - yes I am in the same situation, I also have the wonderful support from my wife Jo but what we don't have are children - could I have done the same if we had? I don't know but I suspect I wouldn't have even tried and that is why I admire you (and anyone else doing the same).

The pangs of worry should always be there - I think that's what gives us the drive but they should not overtake our thoughts.

At the end of the day we can say to ourselves 'at least I'm trying' ;)

Best
Dave


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Thank you Damian, well written and many good points made. I shall look forward to hearing what it is you are going to be doing and involved in.

Although I still have my 'day job' and therefore the security of an income my hope is to make some income from my craft. I admire immensely those of you who do this full-time. Well done and keep going.
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Putting all your financial eggs in one basket is never such a great idea, which is why folks rich enough to buy shares tend to buy them in lots of different companies. Take tips on money management from the rich, they know what they're about!

My household has a total of 4 different income streams, so hopefully if any of them go pear-shaped we can still afford to pay the bills by working harder at the others.

Our main business is a small taxi firm, but like everything around here it's very seasonal. However, at the very least, it pays for us to have transport & gets us out to meet folks... I could VERY easily turn into a total recluse without the excuse to go out & shovel drunks up off the pavement every week end! It also means we know everyone, so if we need an electrician or someone to fix the computer or mend a leaky roof then we really KNOW them, where they live & how pissed they get at the week end. :-) My Etsy shop generally pays the mortgage most months & is a reasonably steady income, ie, variable but not seasonal. My better half is an environmental scientist by education, but only works freelance & occasionally these days, so what he makes on that is a bonus. He also works part-time looking after swimming pools locally (both private ones, & one attched to holiday letting businesses) His income from that is annualised, but the work is seasonal. Altogether, it means we can live in a place that others can only aspire to visit on holiday or retire to, we can choose to spend the day in the garden if we feel like it, & offices are something that happen to other people. We'll never be rich, we rarely eat out & never go on holiday, we don't even have passports... but where could we ever go that would be better than here?

So Damien, don't measure yourself by other people, EVER. Build a life that you like & live it. Be unconventional. Be yourself. Be happy.

And every so often, stick your head the higher side of Exeter to remind yourself why you live here & not there. Spare a thought for all those office-wallahs baking in their cars on their daily commute to spend a glorious day like today in windowless air-conditioning while you're sitting in the sun in your shorts to earn a living... or in my case, often swimming in someone else's swimming pool! At the very least, you can look out of the window onto green trees & hve coffee whenever you like. Ask yourself if you'd swap with them & go to live & work in some soulless grey concrete desert, just to have more money. I wouldn't.

So no, taking a part-time job is not an indication of failure, but a sign that you're building your own personalised lifestyle.

Good luck & have fun!
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Thank you for the kind comments. Just as something for interest that post has had over 23,000 views (I thought I hit too many "0's" to) since it went live, so none of us are alone. It must strike a chord with more people than I thought.

Lorraine: It was hard to start and then just flowed. We all need an outlet sometimes. And of course we need to stop every now and again to look around us at what we have. Thank you.

Dave: Honesty is how I work, in every aspect. You could ask any of my customers and they would probably use the words blunt and straightforward (sometimes tactful, but not often). Doubt, worry and concerns are what drive us all forward. If not we would all be doing the same job as when we left school.

Carol: If I was allowed to, I would have started this whilst still working for my previous employer, With a regular income to. Necessity pushed me in this direction. It does help immensely when you have such wonderful customers that leave 5 star reviews on facebook ;-).

I have posted this in a couple of other teams and I think one in particular has missed the point entirely.

Anyway, I'm off to do some work now. Best wishes to everybody. Keep up the good work and don't let people pull you down.
D
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Just one more quick bit. At least I can say I'm boosting the countries exports! Both in what I sell (50% goes abroad) and the out sourcing of skills to Holland!

:-)
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Great post Damian and congrats on the job. I look forward to hearing more about it.
Yes we're all helping boost the country's exports, collectively it all adds up :)
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Slow to catch up...but know where you are coming from.
I do this and crew on boats (seasonal, weather dependent but welcome diversion), my wife is self employed (Secretarial support, photographer, first aid trainer) none of which is a reliable income.
So your decision appears sensible to me. Eggs and things makes sense!
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