Yeah, I thought the 12 year old thing was stupid too, what's worst, I've read it's not just for items that are intended for children 12 and under, but can't be apealing for them either. Have you read that at all? My daughter is 9 years old, and wants me to give her almost everything that I make. (even the pot holders cause she wants to use them for beanie baby beds or something) Ugh!