When the forums changed, people started disappearing, and suddenly upstairs seemed it was full of strangers with a chip on their shoulder. SO many threads aggravated me I knew I'd either wind up saying something I'd regret or give myself a stroke (and can seriously feel my blood pressure go up when I'm up there). I'm not sure how I found myself here - I think someone mentioned it in a thread, and when I saw who all was here, I joined in an instant. Best decision I ever made on Etsy.