Is anyone else neglecting their team?

[Former_Member]

Where is everyone tonight!

I had an eventful day. I did not finish my dress, picked up my BF 68 Charger out of storage.

Made strawberry waffles and had a bagel with vegetable cream cheese and ham.

[FiveLittleGems]

i did a lot of housework and grocery shopping and child feeding. we tried to play outside, but it was about 90 degrees with 1,000% humidity plus there seems to be a wasp nest somewhere near our patio so we gave up and came back in. :( sat in the a/c and watched a movie together and played some games instead. no jewelry making, tho. got all my custom orders finished, thankfully. now all's quiet on the homefront. well, except for the fact that a huge storm is blowing through right now. my cat is crapping himself under my bed as i speak. he's terrified of thunder. poor little guy.

[Former_Member]

What is he going to do with the fireworks?

[Former_Member]

I am sitting stuck in a parking garage going nowhere after watching fireworks and it is still 93 degrees at 11 at night!! I am fricking hot and I am going to personally throttle each and every person that is honking their damn horn, LIKE THAT IS GOING TO HELP!!!!

[Former_Member]

I'm cold it was 80 degrees her but it has dropped. My man and son just stole my dogs for a walk at 9 pm.

He got mad because I told him he needs to make them sit while putting on the collar and lease.

[Former_Member]

Isn't it a little early for fireworks?

[Former_Member]

ive been listing all day and now i am considering falling asleep before three am for once.

[Former_Member]

I'm thinking of falling asleep myself forums are dead, team was dead and I'm done sewing for the night.

I could watch TV but there is usually nothing worth watching. I'm not much of TV person.

[FiveLittleGems]

p1xie says

What is he going to do with the fireworks?
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oh, he definitely freaks out about those, too.

[Former_Member]

They do em all weekend long here. The cities take turns. My husband has to work tomorrow so we went tonight.

[Former_Member]

I took my dogs as pups to the rodeo, I guess you can't do that with cats. I never wanted a dog that was afraid of fireworks. They've also been to gun clubs for the noise.

That is cool mylittle. We have a huge rodeo going on, and a General Canby Day on the 4th, but there is this rich guy that puts on a better show than the rodeo so we have been going there for the past couple of years.

I may not go because my guy has been drinking a bit much and is obnoxious and I don't want to be around that.

[Former_Member]

I have never seen my husband drunk but I go on crying jags when I drink too much.

[Former_Member]

He is horrible. Picks fights, runs around like a maniac and says crude rude things to others.

I could tell you horror stories. I won't go in public with him anymore if drinking is involved.

[Former_Member]

I'm neglecting everything that doesn't need to be fed.

[Former_Member]

Well Nanny if you didn't add the fed part I would of called you Joe michelle's man that didn't give the animals water ;)

[Former_Member]

That sounds like my brother in law. I hate going out anywhere with him because he starts with a bottle of wine, then progresses to the cocktails and finishes up with shots. And then he is telling everyone's business to everyone else, criticizing everyone, and then saying how wonderful he is. Just totally obnoxious and I hate it.

[Former_Member]

He got so drunk one time I had to stop on the side of the road so he could pee. We were close to a truck stop. It was late and dark. He takes off on me. Runs away. Mind you I was driving I didn't drink at all.

Here I am a woman alone at a truck stop that is not fully lit trying to find him. (I should have left his ass). I'm actually a bit scared. I can't find him. Go back to my car. I don't want to call the police but I need help finding him. I call his mom, no answer it is after 1 am. I call my family of course they answer. As I'm talking to them I see him running with his arms waving. I get off the phone go to him and he puts up his fists. I'm like it's me! I just want to take you home.

He almost got shot by a trucker as he went up their cab. The trucker pulled a gun and tells him it's ok he watches Ice Road Truckers.

Next morning he says he knows I love him because anyone else would of just left him there.

[FiveLittleGems]

yeah. i would have left him there.

[FiveLittleGems]

i have never in 14 years seen my husband drunk. ever. i've seen him have a couple, but that's it.

[Former_Member]

I guess I'm just too old to get drunk like that anymore. I may have a couple of drinks to relax but I don't let myself get out of control

[Former_Member]

I've been with mine for 10 years and though he has had issues in the past from what I hear from his x, friends and family he never has really been a drinker with me.

Well I guess it has been going on now for two out 10 years now. Not every day but with the above that is worth a life time... and that is not the only incident.

[Former_Member]

That is a nightmare, I think I would have left him too. You could have been hurt trying to find him. I have only been drunk twice. Once at my cousin's wedding and once when I was playing some silly shot game with my sisters. Both were more than ten years ago. I didn't enjoy it so it was not something I wanted to repeat.

[Former_Member]

I tend to get sick if I drink too much

[Former_Member]

I have never gotten sick but sitting around crying over stupid stuff is just embarrassing. Especially since back then I really didn't have much to cry about.

[Former_Member]

lol I did that once got so sick and I was crying that I wanted my mom or my big brother