Hi Lara! I think I'll sort of echo what KJ said - I'm not sure what's up with traffic on EW but it can be just as frustrating as waiting to get sales on regular Etsy. I definitely feel lost in a sea of shops. I'v been on here 1 year with 14 orders.
But I think the key is to not "wait" but go out and bring these wholesale buyers to your linesheet. I haven't quite figured this out yet, I gather it takes a ton of work and tenacity but it's the only way I think.
That said, once I do get an order it is just the easiest thing in the world to handle here on EW - I really appreciate what they've set up so far (with the exception of no shipping labels!).
Good luck to you!