Hey Mary!
I'll walk you through what I do, I'm not saying it's perfect or even right but it works for me:
- Order comes in
- I review it to make sure I can handle it, work out a timeline for delivery, add a shipping charge (for me the USPS flat rate priority boxes are the easiest to deal with) and add that in to the list of charges (there's a box for this under your dollar totals, "add shipping charge" or something like that). If you forget to add shipping at this time I think it would be really awkward to add it in later!
- Enter a ship by date and a pay by date (these are the same date for me, I invoice when the order is complete and wait for payment *before* shipping); as long as I finish the order before the ship by date I feel ok; sometimes buyers don't pay until after the ship by date but that is sort of their choice, you know?
- I write a note to the buyer that mentions delivery timeline and shipping charge
- Click "Accept Order"
- The buyer then has the chance to review what you've entered (dates and shipping charges); I usually never hear back from the buyer until I send an invoice, but they could contact you about the timeline or shipping charge
- If you need to add more information to this order the only way I've found to do so is through convos, not through the order itself which is really frustrating. Once you've "accepted" the order, you can only invoice after that. Sometimes I need to make a small adjustment and I have to contact them through convos to do that.
- Order is ready; I update the "note" on the order that it's ready and I'll be happy to ship once payment goes through. I leave the original dates the same, only because the shop owner may have planned their budget according to that timeline I gave them. I finished my last order a week early, but I understand if they need to wait until that original ship day I gave them. I doublecheck the shipping charge I gave them although I don't think I'd ever adjust it upward since we agreed to that initial shipping charge; I am occasionally able to adjust it downward though
- When everything looks good I click "send invoice"
- Then I wait; After a couple days, I start contacting them every couple days, especially if we go past that original ship date then I start contacting daily. I've never had a nonpaying buyer, but sometimes they take a few days.
- Payment comes in; I make sure it shows up either on paypal or Etsy as completed or whatever, then I print off the invoice, stick it in the box with the order and tape that up; I print my labels on usps.com
I took me two or three orders to get used to the procedure but I'm pretty comfortable with it now. The biggest thing for me is communicating with the buyer as much as possible - if there's a problem or if I can finish way earlier, whatever it is, I try to keep them updated.
Good luck Mary!