I send the shipping notification and say this:
Note to buyer about this shipment
i sent the banner today. i hope you enjoy it.
if you have any questions or concerns, feel free to contact me so we can address them.
positive feedback is my goal, it also lets me know you received the items. if you have time to leave feedback after your banner arrives, please do so at the following link:
http://www.etsy.com/feedback/awaitingall returning customers can use the unexpiring coupon code xxxxxx for 10%off anytime.
jenni