For housework chores, assign certain chores to certain days of the week. Like laundry and bathrooms on Mon., vacuum and ironing on Tue, pay bills on Wed, etc. That way you're not always haphazardly doing this or that chore, and worrying about forgetting something (like paying a bill), and choosing between housework and etsy business. You can plan how much time to dedicate to each day's housework, and how much to dedicate to etsy stuff. And stick to the plan.
Having an organized plan can give you a sense of control, keep your mind uncluttered, and make like happier. I wish I were better at sticking to mine :)