your titles are the problem. three-six word titles=death.
IF you have a phrase, like "red beanie hat" only in a tag and not in the title, you will show up on page 97
If you have it in the title AND in one tag, page 1.
your titles are too short, and dont have good keyword phrases, so you are showing up on page 173 in searches that are important to you.
if you take your best 5-7 tags from this listing, then make those your titles with a comma between them, I guarantee traffic will improve.
https://www.etsy.com/listing/192089094/aqua-blue-handmade-lace-knit-womens?ref=shop_home_active_1cold weather will also help