Regardless of how much you think you have control of your life, it’s really an illusion. You never really know what’s going to be around the next corner. Bad things happen to good people. Life isn’t fair.
However, I think you can put wheels in motion to keep moving forward in the direction of your dreams.
Read on:
http://blog.kanelstrand.com/2012/06/working-hard-having-faith-and-surrender.html