Cynthia, you can just marked it shipped when you ship it, as long as the tracking is in paypal, you have it if you need it.
I usually add the tracking number and send the etsy email thanking them at the same time.
If you mark it shipped today and your 10 days have passed, you will get a deposit tommorrow. Etsy deposits late in the day, and my bank shows the deposit a day and a half later, usually. each bank is different