This does not have to be this difficult.
If the customer is employed outside the home, have the package delivered to her/his place of business. I provide tracking numbers for them to keep track of the package and the link
http://www.usps.gov for them to track the package. I give them the Scheduled Date of Delivery as well. At what point does the customer have the responsibility to use these tools I send to them. I do not look up each address on Google maps to verify that the house is in a good neighborhood. Even if it is a good neighborhood, there are still dishonest people. If you read some of the news articles, you will notice that the package is removed within minutes of delivery. Which means some thieves are following delivery trucks or the neighborhood is not a safe place to leave packages out in the open for any length of time.
Most postal carriers deliver mail appoximately the same time everyday and most people are aware of the this information. Put a note on the door asking the carrier to knock when leaving a package, if you are home. If the customer cannot be home, ask one of the older neighbors to pick up the package for you. They are usually home and probably would not mind helping. Make them some cookies as a kind jesture. If you know your postal carrier and know you are unable to be home on that day, ask him/her to hold you packages at the post office and you will pick them up.
On the plus side, my friend heard back from her customer and the package was found. Mind you the customer waited 13 days after the delivery date to contact my friend, when the customer knew the delivery day. The customer's son picked up the package brought it in and it was sitting in the house in plain sight for over 13 days. Go Figure!
Below is the notice I have in my announcements, I would like to know if I need to tweak it even more. If you would like to use it as well, you are more than welcome.
Holiday Season Delivery Notice, Please Read Before Purchase!
If you live in an apartment, urban neighborhood or a high traffic area and there is not a secure place to leave your package, You Must make Arrangements for the secure delivery of your package to another secure address. If you are working outside the home, have it delivered to your work address. If you have a family member, friend or neighbor who could receive the package, all you need to do is to give me their address. Once the United States Postal Service delivers the package to the address you provided, I will not be responsible for the Theft of Your Package. No one wants you to receive your order anymore than I do. Although, I am only doing what you required me to do and that is to deliver the package to the address you provided. If you want to pay to have a Signature Confirmation, I will be happy to do this for you. Although, you will want someone, who is an adult you trust, to sign for this package.
When you make a purchase, you will be given a Scheduled Delivery Date and a Tracking Number when I ship your package. It is up to You to check the tracking number everyday. It will let you know where the package is each step of the way of the delivery process. On the last day, it will say Out For Delivery, This Is Important, that you or someone else you trust is available to receive the package on that day. Again, if you work outside the home, have the package delivered to your place of business.
It is sad that we cannot trust like we once did but theft of packages left by delivery companies is something that has been happening for the past few years. Please help me to make sure you receive your purchases. Thank You!