It's Day 16 - we're halfway there!
Today, we're going to talk about making a Big Scary Goal, or BSG.
Why bother with a goal (or goals)? Is a vague idea of where you want to go enough? You're still feeling your way around and "letting things grow organically"?
Here's a quote for you: "Success isn't a result of spontaneous combustion. You must set yourself on fire." ~Arnold H. Glasow
Your Big Scary Goal is your flame accelerant.
Choose something still somewhat realistic (ie, you're not aiming to be the first artist to paint the Earth while sitting moonside), but that REALLY stretches you. If you figure it out and say, "yeah, I could do that - give me a year or two," then you're just thinking of a goal. Not a *B*ig *S*cary *G*oal. A true BSG should make you shiver. It should make you uncomfortable, and possibly have a heart palpitation or two. And then, as you continue pondering it, you'll find a smile is starting to work it's way across your face and that heart palpitation becomes your heart beat speeding up at the excitement of trying to reach your BSG. Dangit! You're going to DO THIS!
There's an article linked below. read it. I know it's long, but no more so than the ramblings I'm often writing here. Then get out a pen and paper and sort through all those thoughts crashing around your head until you refine your Big Scary Goal.
Then we're going to practice sharing it. Saying it out loud for the first time can be hard. You stutter a little, find you need a glass of water, and may have to try several times before actually spitting it out so that your own and others' ears can hear it properly. So you're going to write it here for all of us to see. Let your fingers do the talking, as it were.
So, go on.
Read this article. Then print it out, and reread it with a highlighter in hand. Then scribble key word reminders in the margin. Then do the steps. Then thumbtack all of it to your wall in a prominent place! Then come back here and write out your BSG, as explicitly and detailed as possible. Include numbers if you want. We're all in different stages here - it's not about bragging or wishing - it's about BSGing and BSGs are BIG!
The article:
http://www.stevepavlina.com/articles/power-of-clarity.htmGo!